Be More Comfortable with You…

Stop letting others tell you who to be and what you’re worth

Develop better relationships & more happiness as you embrace who you really are—even the stuff that’s not perfect

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Hi! I’m Amber.

I’m a researcher with a master’s degree in Marriage, Family, and Human Development (working on my PhD) and I love to help women live their best lives by being true to who they really are.

As you let go of who you think you should be and embrace who you are, you will find more intimacy and connection in your relationships, more happiness in your life, and more capacity to become your best self.

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    Embrace who you truly are

    Let’s go through this journey together.

    Get More Comfortable Being YOU!

    How do you become confident enough with who you are

    that you can allow others to truly see the real you?

    follow these steps…

    Step 1: Are you authentic?

    Are you a people-pleaser? A perfectionist? Do you worry too much about what other people think or feel responsible for others’ moods? All of these are signs that you’re not as authentic as you might like to be (none of us are). Learn why.

    Take me there!

    Step 2: What makes authenticity hard?

    There are so many voices in our world telling us who to be and what we are worth—and often we allow those voices to define us. Take a look at some of the most common ways we all do this so that you can let those go and be more you.

    Take me there!

    Step 3: Figure out how to be more authentically you

    OK, so what if you stop letting other people define who you are…what’s left then? Who are you then? Let’s talk about figuring out who you are at your core so that you can confidently declare “this is me!”

    Take me there!

    You are in the right place if…

    • You are constantly trying to please everyone else to have good relationships.
    • You feel drained or overwhelmed with everything you’re trying to do.
    • It’s hard for you to connect with other people or you feel like you’d like better relationships.
    • You don’t feel comfortable with what you see in the mirror.
    • You sometimes feel responsible for other people’s moods or happiness.
    • You feel inadequate or you’re a perfectionist (or basically, if you’re human).
    “I have loved learning about sense of self. What a paradigm shift!! It has led me to more learning and growth. My marriage and other relationships are doing noticeably better because I am comfortable setting boundaries. I better understand my worth, and in return, have more confidence to make decisions, take on huge new goals, and no longer let people walk all over me. Life changing!!”
    ~ Colleen

    Authentically YOU

    A transformational course coming soon!

    You can live your best life, have deeper connections in your relationships, and more happiness being who you are.

    This online course will walk you through the process of recognizing, defining, and deciding for yourself who you want to be.

    Hands-on activities, videos, and conversations about how to do this will help you make progress towards being more Authentically You!

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    *Subscribers will get a discount code for the course.

    “I catch myself in old habits all the time after learning this material. I have tried a lot of coaching and self-improvement courses but only this one from Amber has stayed with me. I think it is because it has the perfect mix of research-based material (so I understand how I got my habits) mixed with her relatable delivery and examples (she gave me hope and ideas on how to move forward at my pace). I can’t thank her enough for helping me self-reflect without self-hatred. I show up in my life differently after just a few lessons!”
    ~ Lisa